What you won't do for love?

Well, it has happened time and time again. People fall in love and then some lose all sense of themselves. Has this happened to you? Go ahead, lie! and say "Never me" The truth is real love is stronger than pride and sometimes you will find yourself putting up with things you said you would never do or doing something for your mate you said you will never do! (get your mind out the gutter) <----Well that too...lol.
As I write this I can't help but think about Bobby Caldwell's song "What you won't do for love"

So tell me what will you NOT do for love or what have you done that you said you will never do? While you ponder that listen to the song below....

The Single Person's Deal Breaker

If you're like me then you watched the season finale of VH1's Single Ladies on Monday night and if you did you probably felt the same way I did at the end of the show. SHOCKED! The lead character Val had two proposals in one night. One (Quinn)from her ex-boyfriend of which she dated for 5 years and never popped the question hence the breakup and the other from a man (Jerry) that promised her the world but told her he did not want to have anymore children and did not desire to get married (he saw the error in his ways)...That left me wondering about Jerry. What if he never saw the error in his ways and Val settled for just him instead of the things she really desired which was marriage and kids with the man of her dreams. Could he really be the man of your dreams or soul mates if doesnt want the same things you want out of life? So that leads me to another question; What are your dealbreakers/What things will you shoot the deuces for? Do we focus too much on the white picket fence so much that we stand in our own way?

Homebody? Couch Potato, Cheap or a Freak?

Suzie just met this new guy, they have been talking on the phone non stop since they met and it's getting pretty close to the conversation of making plans. Finally the guys says, "What do you have planned this weekend?" she says, "Nothing much, why, what's up? He then says, "We should get together this Friday and hang out"..Suzie is elated, of course but she plays it cool, afterall a girl can't seemed too excited about a date so she moves on to the next question which is always "Well what would you like to do?" and the answer that comes out of his mouth is the worst response a girl ever wants to hear as it relates to dating....he replies, "We can just chill over your house and watch some movies, you know something low key"....Suzie in her mind closes up the door to her walk-in closet because she was just thinking of what should could wear to wow him and politely says, "I don't think that's a good idea for our first date......"

This type of situation happens everyday in the dating world, but why does it keep happening? Now I know how difficult it may be to be dating in a recession but that's why Groupons exist! and if money is still tight well suggest we meet in a park and walk or exercise together? anything but the dreaded "let's hang out". Now to me sitting in my space is so intimate it means to me that I feel so comfortable with you that I rather just chill with you without leaving the house. It's sacred and that is not the benefit of a newbie, that is the benefit of boyfriend. Some men even have the notion to invite you over to his place and he doesn't even have a nice environment....no big screen tv, no snacks, no furniture and where the hell is the wine?....Or could it be that if he thinks he can get you in his lair or yours that he will get lucky? I just don't know, so you tell me is he a Homebody?, Couch Potato?, Cheap or a Freak? please share your opinions and experiences

All my Use- To-Bes Live in Tennessee.........

Now here in Texas they sing a little country song that's goes a little something like this.....All My Exes Live in Texas....But for me I only have one ex that live here. All my use-to-bes live in Tennessee..As I sit here making plans to travel back to Memphis, I think back at all my past Exes that still resides in Memphis. I announced via Facebook that I'm Coming Home Again like Chris Martin sings in Kanye West's HomeComing, about my plans to do just that this weekend...and suddenly all my exes, boos and homey lover friends from the past, hit me up asking me to be a apart of my schedule....I guess moving to another state has got me looking more intriguing. Maybe it's because I'm just not there anymore but its shows me that they want nothing more from me than an opportunity to travel back down memory lane. They want the opportunity to feel the way they use to feel...or me to offer the notion that they still have place in my heart....I represent the girl they let slip away....and they represent weaker mindset of myself....the person I use to be....and they use-to-be a part of my life, but I can not let them be apart of my "Going-to-be"...needless to say there will be no visit with Exes......

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YES I HAVE...........

"YES I HAVE" is the words that you read as a text message. Never thought those three little words would have you looking at some things quite differently.

So you just left your "boos" house someone you digging and have been seeing for some time.

You always look forward to chilling with them..............you do the usual hangout, watch tv or movies, talk, laugh and don't for get the dessert at the end of the night. As you leave that next morning you get a strange sense of a question to ask. You know if you ask them you are going go get a "straight up" answer since that is their personality. So you go for it............."Are you sleeping with anyone else?"

You wait patiently a little nervous but the text message indicator goes off and you read the words "Yes I have".........Why all of a sudden you feel nauseous? Yeah something you should have ask day one but who really does........ Now you want nothing to do with them........funny because didn't you sleep with someone else? Double standard? Why do you feel this way? Do you stay or runaway?

What You Always Wanted To Say!

Men, I am sure there is something you always wanted to tell black women, but you just didnt have a chance to say it, or you didn't feel compell to share.It can be from advice to things you like or dislike. Well here is an opportunity for you to get on your soapbox. What would you like to tell all single black females out there. We are listening!

Playoff Time! All Jokes Aside!

It's Play-Off Time boys and girls, ladies and gents. And No!, I am not talking about the NBA Play-Off's. I am referring to the games some men play. These are the type of men who play on your every word and tries to fulfill you desires only to leave the woman dumbfounded, asking "What happened?". These are the men who wine and dine you when you first meet them and a month later it's over. These are the men who say they don't want DRAMA or desires a DRAMA FREE relationship and at all cost they try to start an dramatical situation. So it's Play-OFF time, GENTS. See I don't get caught up in games men play because I can see it a mile a way......I didn't play games as a child so I dont have time to play them as an adult.....Why do some men play games? Are their lives that unfulfilling?