It's Play-Off Time boys and girls, ladies and gents. And No!, I am not talking about the NBA Play-Off's. I am referring to the games some men play. These are the type of men who play on your every word and tries to fulfill you desires only to leave the woman dumbfounded, asking "What happened?". These are the men who wine and dine you when you first meet them and a month later it's over. These are the men who say they don't want DRAMA or desires a DRAMA FREE relationship and at all cost they try to start an dramatical situation. So it's Play-OFF time, GENTS. See I don't get caught up in games men play because I can see it a mile a way......I didn't play games as a child so I dont have time to play them as an adult.....Why do some men play games? Are their lives that unfulfilling?
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It's all a game. Life is a game hence the phrase "game of life"
Either you play the game or you lose.
It's a cat and mouse game.
You play or you get ate up....everytime.
It is fun. It keeps things exciting, it keeps you on your toes.
As much as we would sometimes not like to play the game in the beginning you have to if you want to survive then after you get to know each other you can be real.
Women give up the cookies too soon or bring too much poison to a relationship.
Men are simple. Really.
TO ALL OF GOD'S GIFTS TO MAN:
Being a masterful lover and a great mate is about knowledge and beliefs. A man must seek knowledge about women in order to understand and appreciate women. A man must seek to know about the female anatomy and what makes a woman tick and gets her juices flowing.
We must have healthy beliefs about sex. Men must understand that women are highly sexual creatures and crave intimacy.
We must learn to eat healthy & exercise in order to feel alive and to feel like the strong man that every women desires. Then we are able to enable a woman to feel like a woman. We can then both live fully in our sexuality with meaning and purpose.
Personally I LOVE and am FASCINATED by women. I adore everything that defines a woman as a woman.. I get no greater pleasure that pleasing a woman. I love watching a woman dress. The way she puts on her make-up, slides on her stockings, fix her hair, looking at herself in the mirror making sure everything is intact, adjusting her garments and on and on. I love watching the way women walk when they know a man is watching. I love the way women smell (every woman has her own special unique scent), I love their bad attitudes at times etc.
A man should allow a woman to enjoy everything that comes with being a woman. He should help her expand her most intimate sexual desires and help her bring out that ruthlessly expressive natural woman inside of her. All without being judgmental.
Everything a woman needs to completely fulfill herself is already inside of her. To bring it out a man must build trust, command respect (by being a man) and lead her.
But a woman can only be fulfilled as much as she believes she deserves to be. A woman must also be worthy and must feel she deserves the pleasure in order to be capable of receiving incredible pleasure.
Give and Take care,
Richie Domino
Richie,
So can we get that on record that men prefer a woman to play games in order to hold a guys attention?
Also I think what you said holds some truth, it may be exciting at first, but when does the game end?
It sounds like in the initial post several different type of men are being described.
A) the man who plays on your every word and tries to fulfill your desires to leave you dumbfounded may realize that that woman is unappreciative of what he can do, or he can't fulfill them. He may have tried, only to find out he can't. Instead of continuing, he gave up or figured she isn't worth it.
B)The man who wined and dined you when you first met but after a month its over either hit and moved in, realized that woman wasnt about shytt, or realized it wasnt a good fit. No point in wasting both of your time if it isnt going to work. Period.
C) For the drama inducing man, maybe he wants your attention but doesnt know how to receive it any other way so he starts issues. I dont know about that one, I dont know too many men who seek drama, most men I know would rather smash their head into a brick wall then argue with a woman, hence its the same feeling anyway. Maybe someone else can expand on that topic.
At the end of the day most men I know, including myself, dont want to play games. We evaluate the situation and take it for what its worth. Some women are worthy of being adorned with special treatment, and others are not worth their weight in wet toilet paper. After seeing which side the woman you are dating lies on, then you can commence to doing what is necessary.
I think open mind is correct and I don't have much to add on this topic.
Richie last line of the first post is the a good point as well
"Men are simple. Really."
So tells us what has happen for you to draw this conclusion. Maybe you should put those men on this blog so we can see how they think
(remember I can't log in anymore)
B.T.
Big Texas,
Why must you always assumed something happen? I guess that's just your style. I wish you could log-in again, you did seem to always stir the pot when it was boiling....welcome back!
Open Minded,
I agree all of them sounded as if they were different characters but most men who play games assumes multiple personalties and roles. All of which you explained sounds like a sensible man motive. But let's be real, you know know at least one man that's a straight fool or a wolf in sheeps clothing.
I am glad to see that the men that have been posting seem sensible...
Let's ask the question, Have any of you did wrong by a woman? And how many of them have you done right by?
Granted, there are men who are posers out there, same as women. There are men who do whatever it takes, say whatever you want to hear to get what he wants. But that's true of both sexes.
Of course I have done wrong by a woman before, same as I have done right. That's life. It happens,and will continue to happen..why? Because no one is perfect and everyone at the end of the day is looking out for self. So that selfish mentality causes people to do wrong. It's reality.
I think that games are fun but there are just some games that I dont like to play. Games that keep things fun and exciting are cool. Ones that leave you feeling confused on the other hand are not. So I think the best way to avoid confusing games is just to demand that person be real and upfront with you. I have had guys tell me they hate when girls play games too. So play on but just make sure it really is in fun.
Also I think what you said holds some truth, it may be exciting at first, but when does the game end?
May 6, 2008 11:18 AM
AFTER ABOUT 3 MONTHS WHEN THE REAL PEOPLE SHOW UP. Usually around 3 months people stop trying to impress each other and start to keep it real.
Let's ask the question, Have any of you did wrong by a woman? And how many of them have you done right by?
May 6, 2008 12:38 PM
I did wrong by a woman but not intentionally. She was the love of my life and I lost her. I regret it everyday. I did wrong by not being completely honest. The worst thing about my pain is that I caused her pain. I wish I could take her pain away because she didn't deserve it.
Richie last line of the first post is the a good point as well
"Men are simple. Really."
So tells us what has happen for you to draw this conclusion. Maybe you should put those men on this blog so we can see how they think
(remember I can't log in anymore)
B.T.
May 6, 2008 12:14 PM
Women are more spiritual than men and think and feel from a higher level of being than men.
A woman will like you and not even know why. She will not be able to explain it. It may not even be rational.
You are either a potential or you're not.
Men are simple because all we really need is sex, food, fidelity and space (at times).
Of course all men are different to extents.
I'm different with every woman I am with. Different women bring out different things in me:)
let the insensibilities begin! This sounds like ONE woman who is STILL single who has been looking for MR PERFECT and has standards so high and unrealistic that NO MAN would ever meet them. As a man, I can honestly say that we DO NOT desire or seek out drama. PERIOD. Any man that says otherwise is a woman and any woman that says otherwise is the source of said drama. Thats why some men lie and cheat...to AVOID drama and slashed tires and broken windshields! By nature, we are ALMOST incapable of causing drama since it derives from heightened emotional trauma, and normal testosterone levels pretty much make us mostly UN-emotional. We can REACT to drama but creating it is less likely.
The other problem I detect here is someone seems to assume that when a man approaches you, he is trying to wife you or be in a monogamous relationship with you. WRONG. Just the same as women don't intend to sleep with every man they meet.
Women play the most games, tell the most lies, and play more men than men play women. Need Proof?
Two words...MAURY POVICH
its TAE, baby!
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