What You Always Wanted To Say!

Men, I am sure there is something you always wanted to tell black women, but you just didnt have a chance to say it, or you didn't feel compell to share.It can be from advice to things you like or dislike. Well here is an opportunity for you to get on your soapbox. What would you like to tell all single black females out there. We are listening!

Playoff Time! All Jokes Aside!

It's Play-Off Time boys and girls, ladies and gents. And No!, I am not talking about the NBA Play-Off's. I am referring to the games some men play. These are the type of men who play on your every word and tries to fulfill you desires only to leave the woman dumbfounded, asking "What happened?". These are the men who wine and dine you when you first meet them and a month later it's over. These are the men who say they don't want DRAMA or desires a DRAMA FREE relationship and at all cost they try to start an dramatical situation. So it's Play-OFF time, GENTS. See I don't get caught up in games men play because I can see it a mile a way......I didn't play games as a child so I dont have time to play them as an adult.....Why do some men play games? Are their lives that unfulfilling?

March Madness

With this month being "Men's Month" (March Madness), a lot of men are looking for good food, a great game and a woman to caress them if there team lose..........lol....It's always been said that the way to a man's heart is through food, sex and sports! Is this true? Does it matter if the woman you are interested in have two of these qualities instead of all three? What if she has one of these qualties or none? Tell me what you think and put them in the order of importance to you!

Good Guys vs. Thugs

Today I wanted to pose questions that the guys wanted to know the answer too. It seems that this questions as always needed to be addressed and what better way that to ask it straight out.

Why do women like the "thug types" versus the "good guy types"?

What Makes You Commit ?

Commitment is hard to acheive especially if you are happy by yourself. Often women crave it and men dodge it. Sometimes we even ignore it because you could get all of the things commitment offers without actually putting in the leg work, and that goes for women and men. So the question today is a simple one. It shouldn't spark to much debate, for those who are scared of "real talk". What makes you commit to someone?

Business as Usual?

"SEX" in a relationship..........Is this a perk or part of the job description?

Now before anyone automatically assume that I am an individual that has been hurt before and want to be a reformed "virgin"..................THAT'S NOT IT!!!!

What I want to know is do you appreciate the sexual intimacy that you share with your mate and see it as something that he or she shares with you out of no obligation.............or do you say that is just part of a relationship and we should be having sex?.................Inquiring minds want to know..............

Save the Last Romance

Hello ladies and gents,

I wanted to know the answer two an age old question, "Is Chivalry is Dead?" and "Is Romance overrated?" I love being a romantic person, when I am in love or infatuated. I tend to really go all out, while some men don't even know how to get it started and some woman don't know how to accept it! Seriously romance is NOT about how much money you spent. For instance, I had this guy cook me dinner and after dinner he cut up some fruit (different kinds) and fed me each one. Now That's romance! The truth about romance is that you can show someone how much you appreciate them and also show them how much you are into them. After you answered the questions above tell me about one your most romantic nights. What you gave and what was given and yes they can be two separate situations.

So do you really love Black Women?

I am starting to wonder if black men really love black women or do they like a chemical altered version of a black women I mean really. I am a very attractive young lady and my hair is natural. No perm. No texturizer. It is just the way God made it. When I wear extensions in my hair, the same men who ignore me, when my hair is natural all of suddenly are all over me. I mean what is it really when a black man cant appreciate a black womans beauty with out her hair straight or with out a european weave? Can we really blame it on the media like we do everything else? How many women can truly say they love the way God made them? Maybe it is our insecurities.....

Challenge?

Why do men love the women they can catch versus the women that's a great catch? You know what I am talking about ladies and gents. Men love to hunt their prey. Men are natural competitors, they would like to divide and conquer at every task! So does that mean that I should start playing coy and shy or unattainable if I really am in to the guy? Do I have to resort to playing games in order to pursue a relationship?

I am interested in hearing from the men today, those who apply step up to the plate.

Tainted Word: Single

SB Ladies,

I have a confession, yesterday I spent all day in bed wondering why was is it so hard for me to have a companion. In my last trist, I met a man who I thought would be a great mate candidate but he turned out to be an ungrateful eye-sore.

Is it Me? (of course not!), I know us educated women are suppose to put up an united "I don't need a man" front! But I can't not lie. I desire to be desired. Let's just be real (ain't that what the young people say?) Keep it real!

Do you think society puts negative connotation on single black women? and is there anything wrong with wanting a great relationships?