"SEX" in a relationship..........Is this a perk or part of the job description?
Now before anyone automatically assume that I am an individual that has been hurt before and want to be a reformed "virgin"..................THAT'S NOT IT!!!!
What I want to know is do you appreciate the sexual intimacy that you share with your mate and see it as something that he or she shares with you out of no obligation.............or do you say that is just part of a relationship and we should be having sex?.................Inquiring minds want to know..............
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I think sex is an added bonus. I don't think I can fix my mouth to say sex is a part of the description until marriage enters the picture.
Point blank yes it is a part of the "job description"
You can get laid off or even fired if your not doing the job correct. A true deal breaker sometimes.
And the last thing you want in a marriage is someone your not on the same level sexual with.
Yes I do appreciate the sexual intimacy if it is there along with the sexual chemistry from the right person. And all women are not right for the job just like all men are not right for the job. Some women have alot of experience in areas I'm not willing to go and other are not experience in areas I like.
Thats why that resume is so important "afrodesia"
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!
Well with most jobs you have a 6 month probation period.......when you are dating does that apply?
Does a woman have six months to fulfill her duties or does she have a six month trial to see if she can improve on those duties before she is fired..........
Or do you let the chips fall where they may?
And how many women are you willing to sleep with to make sure you get the right one that is suitable for marriage?
I keep telling you Big Texas, Why would I let a Mc'Donald's Manager critique my resume when I want a position at Houston's!.............lol
Well I think you bring up a good point a manager at McDonalds is not ready to review someone who "wants" to be in better work environment, or what appears to be from the looks of things.
But when looking for a "Job" sometimes you have to put food on the table in the meantime and working at Mickey Dees might not be so bad until you get that "Houston's" job. Look at it like this you will have work experience and the Manager at "Houston's" will see that and can offer you more and you will also be able to ......... ok enough of that
LOL!!!!!
asimplejoy for me I don't have a time limit or timeline on anything in a relationship. It is a building process because sometimes within min of the "job" interview you know if they are the right person or not and others might make it thru the interview process offered and accept the job and years into the job stop doing the thngs that got them to that position and the promotions along the way. As the CEO of this company I have to also make sure my employee is still happy with the company from time to time and ways to improve the company so when she becomes CO-CEO we can take our company to the top.
Big Texas I like your addition to our never ending analogy however their is a phrase that comes to mind that I think fits perfectly. "Oh Ye of Little Faith"
I agree when waiting on the "job" you want you may need to secure an "in the meantime" job, but when you operate on faith, somehow your need and wants take care of themselves without you lowering your expectations.
For example, earlier in my career, my first job laid me off after 8 months, I just got an apartment, car,the works. What was I to do? I had faith that everything would be paid and I will get the job I desired soon. And guess what, it happened just like that. Imagine, I did not even have to fill out an application at Mickey D's to get it done.
I dont believe sex should be an obligation, but I think that is definitely something that should be discussed up front. Your views on that issue as well as other issues will determine if we even attempt to have a relationship.
Sara Baartman (The Original Video Vixen)
Go to you tube and type in her name or http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTMqjwFsTZE go to that website
For those of you that can look at you tube at work then do so others can do it at home
afrodesia I think this can be turned into a topic for sure it would be reather interesting of your take and others on the topic.
Big Texas,
That was great video for enlightenment. I appreciate you shraing that with us. Definitely a good topic.
I want to start this topic off first in the morning. email me what you would like the specific question to ask at crazyfinesse@yahoo.com
Question to PVU's finest.......Do you always discuss sex upfront?
Asimplejoy, if I am entering a serious, committed relationship with someone (or plan on it) then yes that conversation is a must. We need to be on the same page, I dont assume anything when it comes to beliefs, backgrounds, experience, thought process, etc....so that is crucial. Not even just a sexual/intimacy level, but across the board. If we don't agree or are light years apart, then there is no point in even starting a relationship with that person.
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