Monday, December 13, 2010

YES I HAVE...........


"YES I HAVE" is the words that you read as a text message. Never thought those three little words would have you looking at some things quite differently.


So you just left your "boos" house someone you digging and have been seeing for some time.

You always look forward to chilling with them..............you do the usual hangout, watch tv or movies, talk, laugh and don't for get the dessert at the end of the night. As you leave that next morning you get a strange sense of a question to ask. You know if you ask them you are going go get a "straight up" answer since that is their personality. So you go for it............."Are you sleeping with anyone else?"


You wait patiently a little nervous but the text message indicator goes off and you read the words "Yes I have".........Why all of a sudden you feel nauseous? Yeah something you should have ask day one but who really does........ Now you want nothing to do with them........funny because didn't you sleep with someone else? Double standard? Why do you feel this way? Do you stay or runaway?

1 comment:

PaddyYoungin said...

Do you stay??? Of course, Show some love and keep it real. It's not often that you would get that answer from a guy. Since he is keeping it real, your next question should be, "How can I win the other chicks chips" Chips = Time. If you take her time/chips, the sex w/her stops. Don't try to stop him from having sex w/her b/c if he does he has all this time on his hands and now you may have another chick to deal with soon after. If you are really diggin this dude you gotta stay boo'd up as much as possible. Another point I want to make is, Now that you've asked this man a question about his life outside of you. You need to volunteer something... but NOT the fact that you are messing with someone else. Admitting to that will destroy your chances of being the Main and Only. ~PaddyYoungin